Author: RedZin Mom

Life's too short to keep everything bottled up!

Mo Anam Cara, My Soul Friend

What is the definition of lifelong companion? Of love really? Do any of us really know what either is? We’re taught what it’s “supposed to” be. Boy meets girl. They “fall in love” have sex, have babies. Grow old together. Girl takes care of everything. Boy does wtf he wants. That’s not love. That’s supposed…
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January 12, 2020 0

Trapped in the Supposed To’s: Marriage

The “supposed-to’s” get us through life when we don’t have a plan, a dream, or a path to take. They are a basic outline for life’s path. The norm. The way everyone goes if not driven by anything else but following from the beginning to the end. Born. Grade school. Graduate. Go to college. Get…
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January 1, 2018 0

Emotional Labor

I always feel like I’m juggling so many things, and even a simple task is much more detailed than it looks on the surface.  My spouse does not seem to just help where he sees help is needed, although on occasion, he does do something, like wash some of the dishes when he’s been baking.…
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October 20, 2017 0

Lunchmeat

I was finally able to put into words why the lunchmeat makes me mad: It’s expensive. So I try alternative ways to supply and save money. But you don’t tell me you don’t like really like roast beef. There are not many options you can eat. No one tells me when they’re tired of sandwiches.…
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October 19, 2017 0

Welcome!

Welcome to our blog! We are Moms Who Wine Together!  Sometimes a mom has gotta vent, especially when just a glass of wine isn’t enough.Topics will vary, whatever is on our minds. Thoughts from kids to husbands, to thoughts of the day.  Sometimes we will be foul-mouthed, sometimes we will be sarcastic, sometimes frustrated. We…
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October 18, 2017 0